Not everyone is fortunate enough to have strong support from a caring mother or mother figure. But for those who do, maternal guidance often has a profound impact. In this issue of Menderist, seven writers share personal stories and perspectives about the positive influence and problem-solving skills of mothers and mother figures.
What parental guidance has the biggest impact on a child’s future? For author Kern Carter, a large part of success has been his mother’s steady encouragement of, and belief in, his longtime goal of becoming a published author.
Becoming a mother is a huge transition for women, involving physical, psychological, and spiritual shifts. Psychiatrist Barbara Robles-Ramamurthy recounts her early motherhood journey, revealing how conventional approaches failed her. She shares how she and her partner are co-creating a family life that centers on children’s needs and family health.
Advice received long ago from her husband’s mother is still valuable today, explains researcher Amanda Doherty-Kirby. She remembers the practical help her mother-in-law, Jean, provided during key events, like wedding preparations and setting up their family home.
After growing up in a home where her mother encouraged creative play, kindness, and family rituals, author Cheryl Oreglia made an unusual decision. She describes childhood memories and their lasting effects.
The early loss of a parent was a devastating experience. But, explains teacher Mark Winterbottom, steps taken by his pragmatic and compassionate mother helped him through dark days – and into a successful career and family life.
It wasn’t until he became a parent, explains teacher Rolland Chidiac, that he realized how much work goes into caring for a family. He shares how this new understanding has deepened his appreciation for maternal strength and capabilities.
A love of travel, art, reading, and conversation were some of his mother’s interests, Dave Sacher remembers. Those and many other qualities inspired him, as did the time his mom revealed the secrets of long division.
It’s not only parents who raise children: other relatives and friends often help, too. In a follow-up article to his first story, Dave Sacher pays special tribute to the special care he received from two aunts.
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